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Obama the sexist?!
#1

Huh?! Those impure thoughts strike again..

A storm in a tea-cup, if there ever was one..


Obama apology: US media react to Kamala Harris 'sexism' row


President Barack Obama and attorney general Kamala Harris (April 2013) President Obama said Kamala Harris was "the best-looking attorney general in the country"


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US President Barack Obama has issued an apology after he was widely criticised for referring to the attorney general of California, Kamala Harris, as "the best-looking attorney general in the country".

The White House said he had apologised to Ms Harris, a long-time friend, for the "distraction" created by his comments and that he fully recognised that women should not be judged on appearance. Commentators in the US have been giving their reaction to the apology, and whether Mr Obama was right to say sorry.

Eric Golub writes in the Washington Times: "Conservatives like myself were forced into the uncomfortable position of defending President Obama. Restoring a modicum of integrity and sanity to this world requires it. In fact, Obama's "ogling" actually goes a tiny way toward rebutting a major criticism of him. Android computers lacking human emotion are incapable of lust, so Obama may be human."

Jennifer Rubin in the Washington Post wonders whether everyone has "gone stark raving mad", saying the president was "bludgeoned" into apologising. "Conservatives should figure out there is a bunch of real stuff to be complaining about, and much of this nonsense simply makes them look like they are back in junior high. And the tut-tutters on the left? Well, they shouldn't be surprised that young women don't want to be called 'feminists'. If the compliment police are going to descend every time a pleasantry is offered, well then the heck with 'feminism'."

But Amanda Marcotte says the anger sparked by Mr Obama's comment is justified. She cites research which argues that even "benevolent" compliments reinforce the idea that women have secondary status in society. "As a tool to keep women playing along with male dominance, benevolent sexism works far better than hostile sexism; no wonder we're seeing it so fiercely defended," she writes in Slate.

On feminist blog Jezebel, Katie JM Baker says it was right of the president to apologise. "Women put up with enough unsolicited attention as it is; the president of our country doesn't need to legitimize the practice by piling on."

Robin Abcarian of the Los Angeles Times asks: "Does merely stating the obvious make the president sexist? More wolfish than sexist, I'd say." He adds: "But still. Let's not pretend that physical beauty is not a bonus in politics, particularly for women, who then walk a fine line between wanting to be found attractive and not wanting to be judged on looks."

But his colleague at the LA Times, Patt Morrison responds by asking: "How many times have women squirmed as they've had to listen to men make remarks like this, clumsy efforts at a compliment that wind up sounding embarrassing and even demeaning?" Insults can be easily challenged, she writes. "But a woman who tries to fend off an inapt compliment ... risks being critiqued as humorless, and more graceless than the man who made the remark."

In New York Magazine, Dan Amira responds to accusations of sexism being levelled against Mr Obama by pointing out that he has referred to many officials as being good-looking in the past, usually men. "In short, Obama is an equal-opportunity flatterer, not a shallow, sexist pig. Calling people "good-looking" — men, women, Penguins — is just something he does. It's almost a tic at this point. He doesn't mean anything by it. "

Finally, CNN contributor Ruben Navarrette Jr says the greatest controversy is not what the president said, but the extent of media coverage it has generated.

"There is only one reason the president is skating on these remarks. It's because the people who normally complain about this stuff - the folks who make up the grievance lobby - are among his strongest supporters.

"This is an example of selective outrage and double standards. That part of the story isn't pretty."

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#2
While one could argue that civilization is the art to control (transcend/sublimate, etc.) our immediate urges, and the life of many would be short and brutal without it, do we have to control ALL of them? On the other hand, restricting urges of presidents (leaders, kings, etc.) might be a tad more important, one glance at history will instantly confirm..
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#3

But then we have this..


The Death of the Political Sex Scandal


Posted by: on April 03, 2013

This morning, former South Carolina Governor Mark Sanford appeared on MSNBC’s Morning Joe to celebrate his victory in last night’s Republican primary runoff. Sanford will run against the Democratic nominee, Elizabeth Colbert Busch, in the special election for the state’s open House seat in early May. But the notable thing about his victory is that he overcame one of the most notorious sex scandals in recent memory—Sanford, you’ll recall, disappeared for days and was said by his staff to be “hiking the Appalachian Trail” when in fact he was shacking up with his Argentine mistress.

Sanford’s comeback is only the latest example that behavior that once would have swiftly and permanently destroyed a career has become no more than a temporary setback, if that. The political sex scandal is dead.

Consider the recent evidence. Last year, Republican Representative Scott DesJarlais of Tennessee—a physician opposed to abortion rights—was revealed to have carried on affairs with his patients and urged one of them to have an abortion. DesJarlais refused to resign from Congress and was reelected last fall. Republican Senator David Vitter of Louisiana survived a 2007 prostitution scandal when his name appeared in a client book of the infamous “DC Madam.” Vitter apologized for his “very serious sin” but didn’t resign and won reelection.

Sanford, too, refused to step down (though he did give up his chair of the Republican Governors Association) and survived an impeachment attempt to serve out his term, leaving office in 2011. A number of commentators argue that the sex scandal damaged him and that he may lose to Colbert-Busch. I wouldn’t bet on it.

As best I can tell, only two things are guaranteed to remove a politician from office in the wake of a sex scandal. One is consorting (or attempting to consort) with someone who is underage. In 2006, Representative Mark Foley, a Florida Republican, was quickly forced out when it came to light that he had tried to solicit teenage male congressional pages.

The other thing that can dislodge a congressman from his seat is an angry spouse. After Democratic Representative Anthony Weiner of New York was caught tweeting pictures of his genitals to female followers, it was his pregnant wife who prevailed on him to resign. And although former Republican Representative Chip Pickering of Mississippi retired before his extramarital affair came to light in 2009, his wife’s filing for divorce in 2008 when she learned of the affair seems to have prompted his exit.

But even these “guarantees” seem shakier and shakier. Sanford divorced his wife and won (he’s now engaged to his mistress, who appeared at his victory rally last night). And Weiner clearly would like to return to politics. Last month, Politico’s Maggie Haberman revealed that Weiner spent $50,000 on polling, possibly to explore a run for New York City comptroller or mayor.

Surviving a sex scandal is hardly new. Just ask Bill Clinton, the patron saint of surviving sex scandals. But it used to be an exception, and now it looks more like a rule.

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#4
Life is not worth living if you can't admire and complement an attractive woman. Abandoning you office and lying to your subordinates about your whereabouts in order to cheat on your wife? That might be a little different.

I suppose the conservatives in South Carolina will forgive the President. Won't they?
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